.....Fallen....teardrops.....death
dad, why did you left us? for money or you don't love mom anymore?
.....you don't care for us anymore dad?
we have happy memories together....we have many dreams....dreams to fulfill....
From laughter to tears...
I saw you and my mom laughed together...I witness every laughter that ripples in the air as you talk about your yesterdays...and then all of a sudden..a sudden halt....
I saw my mom crying desperately esp. at night....her soft sobs makes me cry too...sobs that are like a nightmare to me...
..I am strong but deep inside, I am bleeding...I saw my brother staring nowhere...I hate to think that my sibling is hurt...
The dad I used to know to be an ideal father is like a music that suddenly falters, the music suddenly becomes a noise...
I don't know why it happen so suddenly...the strings are okay but suddenly the music changed then falters until it died down....
If I think of a reason why, it may be acceptable if my dad just left because God take him away but knowing he is just there...laughing with the children, talking to them even if they are not his own...So... so hurting...
The laughter that is used to be ours...his smile that is used to be for us..is not for us anymore....
For whom dad, is your hard work?for whom will be the rest of your life?
Every teardrops means undying pain..every teardrop means unfulfilled dreams....every teardrop means death....
If for money, dad, we don't need money..it's not important in life...being a true person showing your true self is just enough for us...
Material things don't matter dad, and will never matter at all...
If for the OTHER WOMAN, we are left broken..if for other woman, our future dies...
You're killing us Dad, not physically dad, but emotionally...You're torturing us...
Physical torture is much better that giving us emotional pain....Better whip us until we die dad..... at least we can't feel the pain anymore and we can't see each others' tears and the sad face we never really dream to happen to us .....and these...shattered dreams...the pain of all pains....
BROKEN FAMILY?
i never expected such pain...Your 19 years together with our mom, just vanish like that, like a fog? ....It's much okay if it's a fog..for fog never vanish totally...it always come back and let the trees felt its freshness..but you dad, you never care..you never stand as a real father to us...but you strive hard to be a real father to the kids that is not yours...
My sibling's words is like a knife stabbing my heart when my mom told him to go to grands' house...His words....." Why should we go there, Mom? We don't have any relative here anymore...We are alone.....just the two us ..only.."
...really really painful to lose a dad ....out of sight but knowing he is just there ....with his "OTHER WOMAN"...OTHER family....so heartbreaking..
Is she worthy dad?
A letter of abandoned children to "OTHER WOMEN":
To the OTHER WOMEN....
Can you sleep tight knowing you're ruining a family? or may I say have ruined a family....?
no soft cries heard at night?of kids left by their dad? of a wife left with nothing but pain , humiliation from you and .... ruined dignity because of your unreasonable ..untruthful
accusations, when in fact, you both, are the one doing that...
Don't say more words...just leave....just don't add pain to our dying hope...
.....hope you know what you're doing....hope you're happy that you have ruined a once happy family....GOD BLESS YOU!
....are you happy with our dad?
knowing that
somebody needs care
Somebody needs love...
Somebody needs their DAD....
and that somebody is we
We need a DAD....
our DAD.....
Our DAD....
OUR dad...
Rowena Arizala
MY mom....crying...and we let her for tears can make her strong ....enough to move on...
MY MOM cries at night, sleep alone , eat alone..and there you are ..my dad cooks for you...wow!!!
and maybe cooked for your kids too when you are with them....
Your kids are lucky enough to have found a dad, step dad, I may say?
but here we are, no dad to cook for us...no dad to laugh with us..no dad to share our dreams and accomplishments as we journey in our life everyday..
OUR JOURNEY IN LIFE WITHOUT DAD.....
Hand in hand, walking down the crossroad
No thorns in the path, all but roses
All but roses until you came
Ruining our lives, shattering our dreams
How can we journey without you, Dad?
You are the one who make us strong too
Can you spare a little love for us
Don't empty us, bring us back to life
A life where no one can break us apart.
If you don't want to journey with us , Dad
Please allow us to journey with you
Even JUST in DREAMS
and maybe cooked for your kids too when you are with them....
Your kids are lucky enough to have found a dad, step dad, I may say?
but here we are, no dad to cook for us...no dad to laugh with us..no dad to share our dreams and accomplishments as we journey in our life everyday..
OUR JOURNEY IN LIFE WITHOUT DAD.....
Hand in hand, walking down the crossroad
No thorns in the path, all but roses
All but roses until you came
Ruining our lives, shattering our dreams
How can we journey without you, Dad?
You are the one who make us strong too
Can you spare a little love for us
Don't empty us, bring us back to life
A life where no one can break us apart.
If you don't want to journey with us , Dad
Please allow us to journey with you
Even JUST in DREAMS
Can you not imagine my mom ..looking like this?
you
know how it feels.. and how it will be felt ..because you have gone
through this too before, when your husband left you for another woman
too...
Have you not remember how your kids cried? how your kids longed for a dad? unless they don't have feelings and they don't feel what we felt...and is still feeling right now...
So, why you let us felt this way too...You know how it will hurt, for you were like my mom once..
you were left for another woman too....
WHY?
Why you ruined our family too....
When you told my mom to let go of my dad if she love him, why not tell that to yourself too?
So painful to find out and read all your words for my mom....words from a mistress who is a fighter than my mom...
Your words hurt my mom so much....you're adding insult to her injury......
I am not writing this for our own sake or for our own feelings but for every kid who suffers losing a dad.....leaving for another woman.....I know many kids are longing for their dad to come back...for many long years, I have no father....and knowing he was just there.....with "OTHER WOMAN".......choosing and prefer to embrace SIN....
Who are you, Sin? why are many dads prefer to choose you between us... You SIN....What is in you that some people choose you rather than choosing GOD!
I am not saying she is a HOME WRECKER...I am just asking Is she a HOME WRECKER?
Have you not remember how your kids cried? how your kids longed for a dad? unless they don't have feelings and they don't feel what we felt...and is still feeling right now...
So, why you let us felt this way too...You know how it will hurt, for you were like my mom once..
you were left for another woman too....
WHY?
Why you ruined our family too....
When you told my mom to let go of my dad if she love him, why not tell that to yourself too?
So painful to find out and read all your words for my mom....words from a mistress who is a fighter than my mom...
Your words hurt my mom so much....you're adding insult to her injury......
I am not writing this for our own sake or for our own feelings but for every kid who suffers losing a dad.....leaving for another woman.....I know many kids are longing for their dad to come back...for many long years, I have no father....and knowing he was just there.....with "OTHER WOMAN".......choosing and prefer to embrace SIN....
Who are you, Sin? why are many dads prefer to choose you between us... You SIN....What is in you that some people choose you rather than choosing GOD!
I am not saying she is a HOME WRECKER...I am just asking Is she a HOME WRECKER?