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Just remember the day when we first met. Those words you've said, the things you've given and the deeds you have done...THE LOVE WE HAVE
As I look back and ponder on the time we spent together...
of the love we've shared for many long years..
of all the trials and difficulties we have faced bravely...
...the trials and difficulties that parted our ways
....I was hoping those trials and difficulties could serve as our challenge to be strong
but I was wrong...those trials and difficulties shattered our dreams
....broke me into pieces...
THEN, I began to ask WHY?
What might be the reasons?
Few reasons why some family shattered:
FINANCIAL?
You have to be strong when this problem strikes you.
Problem like this is just like a test for every family
Never turn your back to look for answers nowhere but go on moving instead.
Look for the answers ahead of you....while thinking of your reasons to walk on
your family, especially your kids....
...because even how hard you strive if you forget your main reason why you are doing that
you will feel empty, you will feel unfulfilled...
What is there to hope for if I am not with my family?Whom will I offer my success if I forget my family.
What is there at the end of the tunnel if I have traveled alone? Can I feel the contentment in life?
Would I feel fulfilled knowing I have neglected the family I have built for many years?
The family that is there with me during ups and down... the family that knew me well?
This won't happen because I will never do things that can ruin my family, my kids especially.
I will never travel alone, if I do, when everything's okay, I will make sure I will come back and let them travel with me.
And we will travel together...
Problem like this is just like a test for every family
Never turn your back to look for answers nowhere but go on moving instead.
Look for the answers ahead of you....while thinking of your reasons to walk on
your family, especially your kids....
...because even how hard you strive if you forget your main reason why you are doing that
you will feel empty, you will feel unfulfilled...
What is there to hope for if I am not with my family?Whom will I offer my success if I forget my family.
What is there at the end of the tunnel if I have traveled alone? Can I feel the contentment in life?
Would I feel fulfilled knowing I have neglected the family I have built for many years?
The family that is there with me during ups and down... the family that knew me well?
This won't happen because I will never do things that can ruin my family, my kids especially.
I will never travel alone, if I do, when everything's okay, I will make sure I will come back and let them travel with me.
And we will travel together...
INFIDELITY?
What is there in-store for my family if I will leave them for security?
If I will leave them for money?
Will there be a bright future for them?
Won't the history repeats itself with my children?
If I will leave my family because of my reasons of being in love with another,
Will they not experience it too?
the pain it will cause?
If I will leave them for money?
Will there be a bright future for them?
Won't the history repeats itself with my children?
If I will leave my family because of my reasons of being in love with another,
Will they not experience it too?
the pain it will cause?
LUST?
If I give in to lust, what is there for me?
Lust is very different from LOVE.
Love stays forever while lust don't last longer.
So why should I gamble on the things that are just passing?
Proverbs 7:25-26
Do not let your heart turn to her ways or stray into her paths. Many are the victims she has brought down; her slain are a mighty throng.
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Romans 1:27
In the same way the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another. Men committed indecent acts with other men, and received in themselves the due penalty for their perversion.
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James 1:12-14
Blessed is the man who perseveres under trial, because when he has stood the test, he will receive the crown of life that God has promised to those who love him. When tempted, no one should say, "God is tempting me." For God cannot be tempted by evil, nor does he tempt anyone; but each one is tempted when, by his own evil desire, he is dragged away and enticed.
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1 John 2:16
For everything in the world-the cravings of sinful man, the lust of his eyes and the boasting of what he has and does-comes not from the Father but from the world.
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Hebrews 13:4 reads "Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge."
Lust is very different from LOVE.
Love stays forever while lust don't last longer.
So why should I gamble on the things that are just passing?
Proverbs 7:25-26
Do not let your heart turn to her ways or stray into her paths. Many are the victims she has brought down; her slain are a mighty throng.
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Romans 1:27
In the same way the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another. Men committed indecent acts with other men, and received in themselves the due penalty for their perversion.
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James 1:12-14
Blessed is the man who perseveres under trial, because when he has stood the test, he will receive the crown of life that God has promised to those who love him. When tempted, no one should say, "God is tempting me." For God cannot be tempted by evil, nor does he tempt anyone; but each one is tempted when, by his own evil desire, he is dragged away and enticed.
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1 John 2:16
For everything in the world-the cravings of sinful man, the lust of his eyes and the boasting of what he has and does-comes not from the Father but from the world.
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Hebrews 13:4 reads "Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge."